...isnotathingtomakefunof
Within this few days, I heard about two deaths. Condolences to their families.
After reading a blog of a ridiculously disrecpectful girl, I strongly...
despise those who do not respect the deceased.
despise those who can still smile, camwhore, and feel-like-it-is-not-her-matter kinda thing when attending a funeral.
This ridiculously disrecpectful girl wrote that she attended a not-so-close-relative funeral, she posted pictures of her stupid camwhoring poses before/after the funeral, wearing huge sunnies and "new" hairstyle, reason for wearing white long sleeves for the funeral, asking stupid question like why cant the deceased die on other day as she actually already have a plan for that day, and having starbucks during the funeral day! (well, maybe starbucks doesnt really matters, here...)...anyways, my point is, CANT SHE SHOW SOME RESPECT? cant she be more sympathetic to the(her) family members? Although she is not close to the deceased, she should know what is DEATH
Death is not a thing which you can make fun of
When it happens to your close ones, you will only understand the real meaning of it:
All Pain, and it's not FUN!
Death is the end of a person's life but it will be a life long journey of painfulness for the deceased close ones. For the one left behind in this world, this journey is not only filled with pains, but also tears, tears, and tears. The memories are the worst enemy in this journey. And memories are everywhere, even a simple coca-cola bottle can trigger memories, memories trigger pain, pain triggers tears.
"If I would have do this/tell this......."
this sentence is like an obstacle in this journey. And this obstacle is never easy to overcome, forever. It will eventually suddenly appear and disappear throughout this whole journey. Regrets is the only way to entertain this obstacle.
if i can be more thankful on what you did for us, will you still be here, longer?
"Everthing will be fine soon"
this is the sentence which one will received most from inexperienced friends who try to understand the feeling of losing a loved ones. I personally appreciate these friends, but this sentence is so not right! How can everything will be fine soon? Nothing can be fine, nothing will be back to normal.
The most comforting yet realistic sentences to tell someone who is surviving this post trauma...
"It will be a tough journey. Only time can cure this." -by MK Chew
"It is okay to cry, but you must know when to stop & move on." -by RQ Lee
Death will happen in any moment....
Be and show appreciation to your loved ones...
or else, you will have regrets hunting in you, forever
just like me
daddysorryforallthebadthingsidid,thankyouforallthegoodthingsyoudidforusandwemissyouforever.ywh5806
14 years ago
2 comments:
hey Ann, It's been like 2 years and your emotion is still so intense. I will never understand deeply how you are feeling until i personally experienced it.
You are right, death is not a joke at all, when you lost a loves one, its permenant and things will never be the same. I percieve it as a change (in a realistic point of view), a difficult permanant change (physically and emotionaly)that all have to go through at some point of time.
I think you now understand more than alot of people around you that appreciation and cherish is important. and you know you have to make the most out of everything when it is still present. Because you never know who will be the next to leave you.
Take care
Hi ann..
My name is johnny n i'm a new reader
saw yr blog add in fs and was hoping u could mayb gimme yr email add so i could add u ^^
btw,i'm from inti UC oso and i'm going ISU next jan
=)
hope to hear from u soon
n yea..we shud all respect the dead
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